Pahoa, Hawai’i-based creator of Villages.io and Humandalas, fostering connection, sustainable systems, and community resilience through tech, intention-setting, and collaborative practices.
Markets
In a world increasingly interconnected, the forces shaping our choices are often subtle and difficult to grasp. We might feel compelled to adopt certain practices, technologies, or even ways of thinking, without fully understanding why. This is where the concept of "network power" becomes crucial, as explained by
NVC
NVC, or Nonviolent Communication, is a powerful communication process that can help families connect more deeply and resolve conflicts peacefully. It is based on the idea that all human beings have needs, and that conflicts arise when those needs are not being met. NVC teaches people to identify and express
Relationships
Have you ever noticed how passion seems to fade over time in relationships? You fall head over heels in love, but eventually those intense feelings subside, sometimes leading to frustration, arguments, and even breakups. The author of Cupid's Poisoned Arrow suggests that this isn't just bad
Polyamory
This article synthesizes findings from three academic papers exploring consensually non-monogamous (CNM) relationships, with a specific focus on polyamory. While one paper delves into the unique and shared benefits individuals experience in CNM and monogamous relationships, the other two papers center on the diverse motivations driving individuals towards polyamory and
Relationships
"Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life" by Marshall B. Rosenberg, PhD, is a powerful exploration of compassionate communication that transcends mere words. It delves into the depths of human connection, offering a framework for understanding ourselves and others in a way that fosters empathy and understanding, even amidst
Polyamory
A new study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior explores what leads people to choose polyamorous relationships. Polyamory, as defined by the study, is a relationship style where partners have open and honest agreements to have romantic and/or sexual relationships with multiple people at the same time. Contrary
Astrology
Traditional Calendars and Their Unique Approaches Calendars are humanity’s oldest tools for measuring time, essential for aligning our lives with the rhythms of nature. Whether planning harvests, navigating seasons, or orchestrating cultural rituals, calendars reflect a society’s intimate relationship with its environment. Each calendar system, shaped by the
Judaism
The Munk Debates, a Canadian charitable organization that hosts live debates on important topics, recently tackled the controversial question: "Be it Resolved, anti-Zionism is antisemitism." The debate, held in Toronto on June 17, 2024, featured prominent figures arguing both sides of this complex and sensitive issue. This blog
Bitcoin
MicroStrategy, the business intelligence firm known for its aggressive Bitcoin acquisition strategy, has filed a proposal with the SEC to increase its authorized shares from 330 million to a staggering 10.33 billion. This move has sparked a mix of excitement and concern among investors, with some fearing massive dilution
Sexuality
Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality, by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá, presents a controversial challenge to traditional narratives about human sexual evolution. The book argues that humans evolved in egalitarian groups where sharing extended to sex, contradicting the prevailing view of monogamy as our natural state.
Sexuality
This book is a guide for couples to experience more pleasure, health, and intimacy in their relationship. It explores Taoist sexuality, also called the “Arts of the Bedchamber,” a three-thousand-year-old tradition that focuses on male multiple orgasms and other secrets of sexual satisfaction. The authors stumbled upon Taoist sexuality when
Polyamory
This blog post accompanies the audio overview podcast for the book "Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy" by Jessica Fern. The book explores the intersection of attachment theory and consensual non-monogamy (CNM) relationships. It is a valuable resource for therapists, individuals, and couples navigating the complexities of CNM.