Summary of The Multi-Orgasmic Couple: Sexual Secrets Every Couple Should Know.
This book is a guide for couples to experience more pleasure, health, and intimacy in their relationship. It explores Taoist sexuality, also called the “Arts of the Bedchamber,” a three-thousand-year-old tradition that focuses on male multiple orgasms and other secrets of sexual satisfaction. The authors stumbled upon Taoist sexuality when the female author was entering medical school and her partner was a student working long hours. They were amazed at the increase in pleasure and energy they experienced as a result of practicing the techniques. They initially shared books about Taoist sexuality with their friends. However, their friends found the books too complicated. As a result, the authors decided to write a clear step-by-step guide for ordinary men and women like themselves. They initially wrote The Multi-Orgasmic Man to help men become multi-orgasmic. Later they wrote The Multi-Orgasmic Couple to help couples incorporate the techniques.
This book explains how men and women can have multiple orgasms. Men can have multiple orgasms without losing their erection and can overcome problems with erection and premature ejaculation. Women can have multiple orgasms every time and overcome difficulties having orgasms. It also discusses how both men and women can have longer, more intense, whole-body orgasms, and how to harmonize male and female desire to fully satisfy each other. Beyond sensual pleasure, the book focuses on how sexual energy can cultivate physical health, emotional intimacy, and spiritual growth.
The book discusses the loss of sexual wisdom in the modern world, noting that sexuality is everywhere but is often viewed through the lens of fear and moralism, leaving many people feeling anxious or ashamed of their sexual needs and desires. The authors suggest that a major part of overcoming shame is learning that it is natural to have sexual needs and desires, and to discover a more holistic and healthier view of human sexuality. They explain that it can be difficult to talk to partners about sexual needs and desires, and this is a significant barrier to overcoming shame.
The book delves into male multiple orgasms, a concept that has been known for thousands of years in the East and was confirmed in the West by Alfred Kinsey and other sex researchers in the 1940s. The book teaches techniques for men to become multi-orgasmic and also provides guidance on how men and women can harmonize their different sexual rhythms and desires so they can have a more fulfilling and intimate sex life.
The authors explain that "multi-orgasmic lovemaking allows men and women to harmonize their often different sexual rhythms and desires so that they can have a deeply satisfying and profoundly intimate love life." However, they point out that "sensual pleasure, as exquisite and enjoyable as it can be, is only the beginning."
The book explains the concept of chi, a bioelectric energy that constantly circulates through every cell of the body. It guides readers on how to cultivate their sexual energy or “ching-chi”, which is a powerful form of bioelectric energy. The authors emphasize that mastering sexual energy can lead to increased energy levels, more vitality, and longevity.
The book also provides insights on:
- Developing sexual sensitivity
- Controlling arousal rate
- Understanding and practicing solo cultivation
- Exploring and understanding one's erotic fingerprint
- Loving and appreciating one’s body
- Strengthening one's PC muscle for stronger orgasms
- Achieving multiple orgasms for women
- Overcoming anorgasmia
- Expanding orgasms and energy
- Experiencing whole-body orgasms
- The importance of touch and its effects on hormones
- The significance of various body parts in sensual touch
- The art of blow jobs
- Different types of thrusts during intercourse
- Sexual healing and the use of sexual energy for overall well-being
- Genital massage techniques for both partners
- Circulating sexual energy during lovemaking
- Understanding the different levels of cultivating sexual energy
- The importance of safety and cautions while practicing the techniques
- Multi-orgasmic quickies
- The impact of ejaculation on men's bodies
- Safer sex practices and sexual health
- Making real love and connecting love and lust
- Cultivating self-love and love for each other
- Transforming negative feelings toward a partner
- The role of sexuality in spiritual growth and spiritual life
- Morning prayer lovemaking
- Soul-mating and soul orgasms
- Transforming sexual energy into spiritual energy
- Cultivating compassion
- Maintaining sexual charge and passion in long-term relationships
- Addressing changes in sexual desire as people age
- Harmonizing different desires in a couple
- The soft entry technique to overcome erection problems
This book provides a comprehensive exploration of Taoist sexual practices and provides readers with practical techniques and insights to enhance their sexual experiences, relationships, and overall well-being.
